(These timestamps are based off of the audio only version of the episode.)

03:30 What was your first dating experience like for you two?  

04:16 What was so powerful about communicating with letters first and what did you guys talk about in those letters?  

06:41 What are some of the most important things you need to agree with each other about in a relationship?

09:04 How much do you think it is important to have visual attraction early on in a relationship? 

11:02 What does it mean to view your significant other as a guest in your life?  

12:58 What do you guys do to develop your own identity while also developing together as a couple?  

14:59 Where do you think insecurities in relationships come from?  

20:48 What kinds of conversations are important to have with a significant other before you make a lifelong commitment with them? 

23:02 What is your opinion on the prevalence of arguments in relationships and how to deal with them?  

30:48 How do you guys define love and what are some of the key ingredients that you need for lasting love?  

32:07 What was it like entering a new relationship after you already had kids and why did it work so well for you guys?  

37:09 What are your most important relationship habits? 

43:05 Mali and Joe's 3 keys to getting closer to their best relationship  

46:59 What advice do you have about initiating difficult conversations with a significant other?